Overdoing enjoyment
You know when you’re so busy that you lose track of time and days? And not in a good way, but in a mentally overloaded way? Because that’s how my head’s been the past several days/week, because my main businesses and projects (PebbleStorm, CEOFlow, DataSalad, ColdCalling2.com and Nitro.la) are all gelling right now, in great ways, and need real attention. Which, because there’s a traffic jam of goodness, is becoming a pain in my azz.
For example, Yanik Silver’s hosting my first PebbleStorm webinar (“Here’s an Uncommon Way to Discover Your ‘Unique Genius’ – Combining What You Love with Real Satisfaction and Financial Independence”) in two weeks, on March 17 (register here). I’m also holding CEOFlow events in both Southern and Northern California, organizing a Nitro.la event, and will also be updating the content on ColdCalling2.com, among other things…
March is going to be a month of overload, a big ol’ bite of the apple.
Extremes of any kind aren’t sustainable
The thing is, I love all these businesses and the people I’m doing them with! Yet things go wrong when we go to extremes, even with enjoyment, and get outside of our sustainable pace. I feel like a glutton at the dessert bar, stuffed from eating too much, but unable to stop…
So of course rather than meditate, play Wii, go for a walk or a motorcycle ride, I decide to do a blog post about all this and add some gas to the fire! Yep I’m laughing at myself. Ah, what I won’t do for my readers 🙂
Be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it
The first inspirations for PebbleStorm came to me back in July/August 2007, when I was at the VC firm Alloy Ventures in Palo Alto, CA (I will do a dedicated blog post on the ‘origins of PebbleStorm’ sometime). After doing about three months of research into the b2b lead generation space, I had 10-12 ideas for projects or businesses that I wanted to do. They all seemed so interesting to me that I didn’t want to have to pick just one. I mean, if you had 10 children, could you choose just one you wanted to keep, and then leave the rest behind?
I got my bunch of businesses
Trust me, I am not complaining. This is a great problem to have, and I love all this stuff – again, so much so that sometimes I can’t stop, even when I should. One of my habits, which I’ve gotten MUCH better at since starting PebbleStorm, is overdoing things and going to extremes. Sort of like when I ran myself into a hyponatremia coma in a triathlon in 2001.
Of course, that pattern is also what led to me creating PebbleStorm (“I want to work on what I want, when I want, with whom I want, from where I want”), which is a seriously extreme way of thinking about work, in its own way!
80% patience, 20% bursts
As much as I counsel patience, babysteps, taking things slowly and more patience, it does make sense to regularly turn on the juice and burst for a few hours (fun!), days (ok) or weeks (yuck). Patience gives you the clarity of exactly what you need or want to get done; bursting gets it done very quickly. You gotta know when to hold ’em, and know when to fold ’em, and how to balance the two modes. I burst for 1-4 hours at a time, and preferably with one of my business partners. I’ll break longer bursts into 1-hour chunks with their own goals.
What I mean by “burst”
When I use the term burst, I don’t mean just working on random stuff for a few hours. I mean sitting down with a very specific goal (launch a website, draft a webinar, publish a blog post, draft and send an event invitation…), for a defined time period (1 hour, 2 hours…), shutting out distractions, and getting it DONE. For example, I might budget an hour to publish a blog post, or two to revise a Sales Success Kit document – and the time limit keeps me focused on getting it done.
This is really the first time since starting PebbleStorm that I have a good reason to burst for a few weeks/a month. I’m not sure if this will lead to changes in my ongoing routines or not, but I’ll pay attention to it.
The burst that created a profitable business in four hours: ColdCalling2.com
Here’s an example of how I burst: a couple of weeks ago, Onna Young (CEO of ColdCalling2.com) and I created a profitable product and business/website in about four hours, after doing some basic preparation and goal-setting. We had fun with it, and made it into a game: “How can we create a site and sellable product in just four hours?” In that time, we created the ebook, Success Kit and website www.ColdCalling2.com.
(Well, technically we lost, since it took us 4 hours and 15 minutes. But don’t tell anyone.)
It wasn’t magic, just the application of PebbleStorm’s principles and PebbleStorm’s 5 Stages. I’ll discuss it some more in the March 17 PebbleStorm webinar.
On the personal front…meditation, exercise, a home in Santa Monica
Meditation: It’s been about three months since I attended a 10-day silent Vipassana meditation retreat (“A lifetime happiness and focus enhancer: Vipassana meditation”). I’ve been meditating about every 2 out of 3 days – sometimes for 5 minutes, sometimes for 30 minutes. It’s a bit of mental calm. I’m still playing with my practice, but I’m feeling like 30 minutes most mornings, and 10-15 at night, is where I’m heading to over the coming months.
Exercise: I’ve noticed how exercise affects my mood positively that day, even many hours after the workout. If I don’t exercise, I’m not as centered (not that anyone else would notice). Normally even I wouldn’t notice, because I’m good-natured in general, but I’ve been paying attention to this. I’m really enjoying both Yoga and mat pilates.
I just moved to Santa Monica: I finally found a great place to rent in Santa Monica (video) as a home, after 2.5 years of bouncing around Northern and Southern California communities! (I was doing the taster’s menu approach in order to figure out exactly where I wanted to land long-term.)
It’ll be fun organizing some PebbleStorm groups here in the coming months. A core part of PebbleStorm includes connecting fellow PebbleStormers, and creating a network of trusted people that can work together very easily. Santa Monica’s ground zero for the core group now.
I’ll continue to visit the SF Bay area about once a month, to see family, friends, clients and to host the CEOFlow sessions.
How much do I want to proof this before publishing?
Not much. Time to hit “publish”, eat something and rest my brain…I have more bursting to do tomorrow! Although I joked in the beginning about making the overload worse by blogging, sharing is fun, and one of my core enjoyments (as it is with many people).
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